For my next birthday, I don’t want a baby For my next birthday, I don’t want a husband For my birthday, I don’t want the judgement from society For my birthday, I wanna be me, me, me But isn’t it strange It took 31 years to say I want a girlfriend I don’t know what I want, I don’t know who I am And I’m questioning now every choice I've ever made I don’t know who I want I don’t know what I am And I'm wondering now if its not time for a change (Come out, come out, come out, whoever you are) So I think to myself, and I ask myself: Are you serious, what are you even thinking? And aren’t you too old for this?? BUT: Oof, I just can’t stop thinking about her, and so I call my best friend and I try to explain to her But its so hard to even find words … And she said: Love (LOVE) be whoever you want, and see whoever you like and just live your life (LIVE YOUR LIFE) And I’m like - what a second - why wouldn’t I do, whatever the fuck I want?? I don’t know what I want, I don’t know who I am And I’m questioning now every choice I've ever made I don’t know who I want I don’t know what I am And I'm wondering now if its not time for a change (Come out, come out, come out, whoever you are) My greatest contribution to society’s evolution Can’t be to marry a guy, and stay home, and multiply If I’d offer a solution, can we just not call it confusion, Straight, queer or bi, single or family mind, Work as you like or just value your time Just don’t live a lie, change when desired Stop telling everyone how to live their lives